HR-Passionista | Marion Eppinger

I remember a moment that seems almost trivial to me today – a small professional success that I overlooked entirely at the time. There was no pause, no pride and no „well done“. I was already moving on to the next task. It was only much later, after taking time off due to burnout and depression, that I realised: celebrating success is not a luxury. It is an act of self-care. And a key to mental health.

 

Why we often overlook successes – Objective & honest

In many companies, the culture is characterised by „further, faster, more“. Successes are taken for granted, praise is rare, and the next goal is already looming.

Reasons for this:

  • Time pressure: who has time to celebrate?
  • Modesty: „I don’t want to show off.“
  • Culture: „No criticism is praise enough.“

However, this is precisely where the problem begins: if we never pause to reflect, we lose our sense of progress – and of ourselves.

„This reminds me of Tim Benzko’s song: Just need to save the world quickly! Listen
to it here: https://youtu.be/4BAKb2p450Q?si=nMu2GUlKjy7oHPpE“

All too often, I have put my needs on the back burner and worked my way through my to-do list. Today, things are different. I am consciously taking time for myself and my achievements!

 

The psychological power of celebration is a well-founded perspective

Celebrating success has a measurable impact on our mental health:

  • Neurobiologically: The reward system is activated, dopamine is released – making us feel motivated and alive.
  • Mentally: Consciously perceiving progress strengthens our sense of self-efficacy.
  • Social: Celebrating together fosters connection, trust and team spirit.

Studies show that people who regularly reflect on and celebrate their successes are more resilient, satisfied and productive.

I found the following studies on this topic:

  • The Harvard Study of Adult Development
    This long-term study (since 1938) shows that social relationships and a sense of belonging which are often strengthened by celebrating together – are crucial factors in achieving happiness and well-being. Successes and positivity were identified as central elements for mental health.
    👉 Read the article on FOCUS Online
  • The science of celebration – positive psychology
    Studies show that celebrating together reduces stress, increases self-esteem and promotes a sense of belonging – all of which are key factors for mental health.
    👉 Article on happinessmeetslife.com
  • Study on occupational resilience (Knispel et al., 2025)
    This study shows that occupational resilience which is achieved through self-care and recognition, among other things – correlates with lower levels of depression and higher job satisfaction.
    👉 Study at ASU Occupational Medicine

 

What does „celebrating“ actually mean? – Practical & suitable for everyday use

Celebrating does not have to be pompous. It can be quiet, personal and authentic:

  • Write in your diary, „I am proud of myself“.
  • A quick thank you in a team meeting.
  • A LinkedIn post acknowledging a milestone.
  • Or a joint lunch after completing a project.

Celebrating means acknowledging what has been achieved. It means appreciating what has been achieved. It also give us strength for what is to come.

Of course, there can also be a big party where everyone celebrates together, dancing, laughing loudly and enjoying the moment. Sometimes that’s exactly what’s needed: a collective exhale, a genuine sense of togetherness and a visible „We did it!“

 

My personal impulse – storytelling & inspiration

After my six-month break, I learned to celebrate even the smallest steps.
A successful workshop. An honest conversation. A day when I took good care of myself.

I know now that these moments are more than just „nice to have“. They are necessary for staying healthy – mentally, emotionally and professionally.

My five impulses for you:

  • Celebrate small steps – they form the basis for big changes.
  • Share your successes to inspire others.
  • Create rituals,  such as keeping a weekly success journal.
  • Celebrate as a team – growing together means acknowledging each other’s achievements.
  • Recognise yourself – you are more than your performance.
 

My conclusion

Celebrating success is not an ego trip. It is an act of appreciation – for yourself and for others.
It is a moment of silence, pride and connection.
Perhaps that is exactly what we need to avoid losing ourselves in a fast-paced world.

„So: what have you achieved today? How are you going to celebrate it?“